Lesbians and Womanhood
While diving deeper into the intersection of womanhood and lesbianism, I began thinking a lot more about lesbianism and gender norms as well as non-binary lesbians. In many ways, being a lesbian goes against many traditional views of womanhood and can sometimes even be its own identity. Because of society’s expectations of women, lesbians face unique issues in terms of body image, gender presentation, and womanhood. Although this is not necessarily the case for all women, many lesbians such as myself feel the pressure to conform to the ideas of womanhood we’ve been taught which go directly against our identities as lesbians. One of these core ideas is the idea that we’ve been taught is that an essential part of womanhood is desiring men and wanting to be desired by men. In addition, in the media, women are taught that they don’t have to be that attracted to men to marry or date them. The idea that being a lesbian in some way go...